Wednesday, December 26, 2012

"The Love of Women: The Root of All My Evil" - Introduction


Hey World

        Here it is the first installment of the book, it is introduction, to what promises to be an insightful and interesting journey through my memories and onto paper. I will be writing these one "story" at a time, hopefully I can do it weekly but I won't make any promises. I would appreciate your comments and input. Thanks everyone...enjoy!


                                                      Introduction

       Right off the bat I want to say the purpose of this book isn’t to glorify the relationships I’ve been in. Nor is it to degrade any of the women/girls I’ve been interested in or dated. It is more to help me see where my mind was at and where it is today in regards to women and how I am in a dating relationship, with the hopes of helping other people realize their own shortcomings and strong suites. I have found that people often jump from relationship to relationship without considering the reasons, or "breakup factors" contributing to the failure of said relationship. If solutions to these "breakup factors" are not implemented, a person often ends up repeating the same mistakes and compiling them with new ones in a new relationship. This book, call it a memoir of sorts, is my attempt to correct my own mistakes. By looking into the mindset of a younger me; using hind site, which everyone knows is 20/20, I hope to see the error of my ways and prevent myself from making the same category of epic failure.
      
        All of these women’s names have been changed of course, because let’s face it. People are crazy. I don’t want anyone to hunt these girls down and pester them at all. Some of them are happily married with lives of their own and I personally don’t want to be involved with any embarrassment or harassment. Some of them might recognize the stories and be offended by the content, to that I say write your own book. To the best of my ability, all of these stories are true and from my own opinion, and as you will see, I hold no punches of what I thought then and what I think now. Some of these stories are indeed humorous and some of them sad. Such is the dating life. I do not consider myself an expert in relationships in any way shape or form. These are simply my own experiences, good and bad, and what I’ve learned from them. Thank you for taking the time to read this far, I hope you will enjoy the rest of the book.

                                          


Love ya World!

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Where Have You Been All My Life?


Hey World,

      It's been a while, I know, and honestly there is no excuse. I just reread some of my post from a while ago and I realized how long its actually been. Well, enough about that. I guess I should update you guys on a few things going on in my life and where I've been lately.

      First, I graduated and passed 2 out of 3 of my board exams. Haven't taken the third one yet, but now I am licensed by California to "practice" respiratory therapy. So that's cool. Second, I turned 24. (I can already tell this is gonna be a very "hohum" blog.) Lastly for now, I am single again, not a whole lot to say about that other than, its for the best...but...yea that's about it. I haven't been doing a whole lot of blog worthy things lately. Well, I did take part in a wedding, and let me tell you, it was fun.


      So, being that this was the first wedding I'd ever been a part of, I was exited. I was playing guitar for the ceremony and singing with a few friends during both the wedding and the reception. Looking back on it, I can see how people get stressed over these things. It's a lot of work. However, being the type of person I am, I didn't stress. I just made sure I had my songs memorized and I played them all day. Craziness! It payed off tho cuz the wedding was beautiful and the bride and groom were very happy. So it all worked out. I think I even have a picture with them later on in the day. Let me find it, or else I'll get "pictures or it didn't happen" from some of my friends. Even though they were there as well. I put it on instagram so here is the link.http://instagram.com/p/TJ_pMZkJjJ/

     Anyway, it was a good day. Things have been a whole lot better recently, so I can't complain. Oh, that book snippet that I blogged about a while ago, was on my old computer and it crashed. So I think I will just rewrite it as a blog series I'm sure you guys will enjoy that.

Well, I'm out till next time. I promise it won't be as long as this time. I'll holla at you!

Bye World.
Vic